Entries Tagged as 'Love and Relationships'

6.25.2019

THE SOLUTION TO YOUR STRUGGLE IS NOT TO DO MORE.

// Have you done all the things and still not having the results you desire? //

It doesn’t matter if it’s about attracting LOVE, making more MONEY, transitioning into your own BUSINESS, finally sharing your ART, or releasing excess WEIGHT…

If you have an underlying commitment to remain where you are or a shadow aspect of yourself operating from fear, the actions you take, the desires you put out to the universe won’t produce the outcomes you desire.

For example the shadow of SHAME.

A client has been on a hamster wheel, feeling frustrated, and unable to complete and release her art and projects – for YEARS.

In her session I identified the underlying pattern of her holding shame from what happened to her as a child.

She was programmed to believe she was bad and the violations she experienced were her fault.

She had a subconscious fear that she’d be seen and everyone would find out she’s really a bad person.

The underlying operating pattern has her self sabotaging, in resistance, and playing the perfectionist.

She saw how she’s been kicking the rock ahead of her and having excuses of why she can’t quite get beyond the finish line.

To get off the hamster wheel and finally launch her art and projects means healing the shame.

Until the shame she’s carried and the beliefs she’s created about herself are cleared, no amount of doing things will launch her forward to where she says she wants to be.

For other clients the underlying causes have been a fear of being heart broken 💔 again kept them attracting the “wrong ones”, single longer than desired or in unhappy relationships.

Another, the fear of being abandoned if she was successful held her in “just enough” money.

Another, old resentment and anger toward others held excess weight.

The underlying cause isn’t a direct relation to the results.

When the underlying aspects that keep the behaviors and patterns in place are cleared, all the doing becomes being and you tap into a state of empowered creation (versus creating from shadow).

So, the thing you’re feeling frustrated about and struggling with… it’s not about doing more things. It’s about a subconscious commitment to not disrupt the protection patterns you’ve developed to keep you and your shadows safe.

If you’ve been struggling and ready to clear what’s underlying and take that leap beyond where you’ve been hovering, let’s have a chat and see if Beyond Your Edge is a fit.

It’s a six week, one on one private mentoring intensive where what’s in your way will be cleared and you’ll tap into the divine creator self you are.

I know you’ve been hovering. You know there is more you want to experience. Are you ready to push your edge and go beyond?

There are 4 spaces available and doors close June 30th (is when all spots are taken).

Your investment is 1997. Payment plans available.

Details at www.KellyAnnCory.com/beyondyouredge

6.20.2019

There is a YOU already living your dreams.

When you release the barriers – control, expectations, negative thought patterns – you become available for quick shifts in your reality.


Many say they want quantum leaps but, they’re not ready or available to let go of what currently is.


What’s happening for you now is a choice – on some level.


💰 When I became aware I was subconsciously choosing lack because I was afraid I’d be abandoned, I worked on the abandonment piece (not the money) and my experience with money shifted (70% increase in the next quarter over the previous year).


❣️ When I became aware I was subconsciously choosing men who betrayed our relationship, I healed the traumatized parts of me (not try and change the man, make a fancy dating profile or change what I looked like) and who I attracted into my romantic life changed.


💃🏻 When I shifted many layers of my subconscious – deep unhappiness, trauma, betrayal, disconnect from self – I lost 100 pounds. I was choosing to have extra weight to protect myself (one of the many other reasons I held weight).


You see, it’s not always a one to one.


If you’re working on money stuff and it’s not shifting, it’s highly unlikely the lack and scarcity you experience is about money.


Same with launching your business, attracting love, and losing weight… it’s rarely about the thing directly.


It’s about the barriers you put up against it.


Are you ready to drop your barriers and go beyond what you’ve been choosing up til now?


Beyond Your Edge is a six week accelerated one on one private mentoring course for those who know there is something in the way and you’re ready to clear it out and take a leap.


This is a highly intensive, high touch, intimate course for those who are ready for the change they’ve been holding off or feeling blocked to allow.
If this feels like you, message me to apply for your space and we’ll discuss the details and ensure this course is a good fit.


Your investment for this six week private, one on one mentoring course is 1997.


Full pay bonus: One month free inside my membership group Mind Mastery: Unfuckyourmind. Your Grand Awakening (150).
Payment plans are also available.


www.KellyAnnCory.com/beyondyouredge

Doors close 6/30 or when the four remaining spaces are filled.

6.12.2019

Beyond Your Edge

Are you questioning EVERYTHING?

Questioning your business, your relationships, where you live, your body, money, WTF you’re doing in your life…? ?

Are you ready to give up, throw in the towel and just quit it all?  

Are you wondering if you’re doing it ‘right’ and where the hell you’re headed?

Are all your fears, self-doubt, insecurity rising to the surface?

Excellent.  {rubbing my hands together with a grin on my face – I love this space!}

You are right in line and on time.

  • Time to go beyond your edge.
  • Time to leap into the experiences you say you want for yourself.
  • Time to allow the expression of who you are to be set free.
  • Time to make the transitions you’ve been holding off out of fear, doubt, insecurity.
  • Time to allow your desires to come into form.

This also means the old has to die off.

The die off isn’t easy.  It’s squirmy and uncomfortable.

I’ve let myself die off every time I’ve been brought to my edge and leapt into the unknown.

From there I have always built better and created new.  

At times it felt like I might never make it through because that is what dissolution of limitations feels like – death.

Death of fear, ego, insecurity, self doubt… All the stuff that held back who I really am and this life I desire to be living.

My desires are my guide.  

The Universe, God, Source is my GPS coming through my intuition and guiding me as I leapt into the unknown.

There is no way around the unknown or being able to control how the journey unfolds.  

Yet, there is a way to navigate through the leaps and transitions feeling empowered.

SO many times it would have been easier to shrink back and settle into what I knew, into what felt safe and secure.  The relationship, the corporate career, the big house…

But, that is not how I am built.

Have you ever seen a chrysalis try to remain in its goo state?  You know, the transition space right before it becomes a butterfly.

It is nearly impossible to not become the butterfly.

The same thing with your expansion, growth and ascension.  It is happening regardless.

If you’re questioning anything or everything, you’re in the goo state.  Not really knowing what is next, the unknown is freaking you out, the dismantling of who you are is happening…

You’re being brought beyond your edge.  

The edge is where many turn back.  

  • The discomfort of the unknown feels too much.  
  • The feeling of loss of control too unstable.  
  • The fears that rise up, too much to face.  

And, you’re exactly in the right place.  

This is not a time to turn back.  

How many years have you been turning back?  How much longer are you going to put off what you truly desire for yourself?

What do you do?

-Run toward or away from what you want?

– Blind yourself to seeing the gifts in front of you?

– Make the same choices as you have in the past?

– Choose what your mind / ego knows or follow your heart and Soul?

THIS.IS.THE.TIME you’ve been moving and growing toward.

Don’t give up now!

It is up to you to choose differently. To not allow the fears, conditioned limitations, current status quo to stop you.

It is time to go BEYOND YOUR EDGE.  Time to take the leap and make the transition to where your Soul has been leading you.

Let me tell you … If I didn’t have the support and Guides leading the way, reminding me who I am, and holding my hand as I leapt beyond on my journey, I know I would not be where I am today.

And I am so glad I went through the hard parts to get myself where I am today.  

I am doing work I love with amazing people, I have close friends all over the world, I am free from debilitating anxiety, depression and trauma triggers, I have the freedom in my days I always wanted…

Beyond Your Edge is a six week accelerated one on one private mentoring course for those who know a next step is what is necessary.  You know there is something in your way and you can’t put your finger on it.

We’ll begin with me identifying your biggest hidden block and transmuting the root cause and the energy holding it in place.  From there unveiling the clarity of your desires and taking the bold next steps you know you’ve needed to take. We continue on with fierce creation and doing the damn things.

This is a highly intensive, high touch, intimate course for those who are ready for the change they’ve been holding off.

Your investment for this private, one on one mentoring course is $1,997.

Full pay bonus: One month free inside my membership group “Mind Mastery: Unfuckyourmind. Your Grand Awakening“. Payment plans are also available.

If this feels like you, message me to apply for your space and we’ll discuss the details and ensure this course is a good fit.

Because of the energy and attention this course provides, there are only five spaces available and doors to this offer close June 30th (or when the spaces are filled).

5.23.2019

Can you handle the truth?

The truth, when spoken with precision,  cuts deeply through the illusory bullshit stories you’ve been telling yourself.

When precise truth comes in it will poke at your core like a hot poker just out of the fire. 

Your automatic defense mechanism is to defend, block, fight back. 

You’ll deny what you heard. 

You’ll push back the Truth Teller.

  • Sure ;), your relationship is working.
  • Yeah sure 😉 you’re in integrity with that one already in a relationship.
  • Sure 😉 giving your genius away for free so you don’t have to look at your own value is working well.
  • Yeah, sure 😉 it’s all about the final touches you need to get together before you can share your work with the world

Your LIFE is evidence of the level of truth you’ve allowed yourself to see through the veil of your blind spots. 

When you hear something and it hurts, pause. 

Is what you’re about to defend who you really desire to be? 

Is what you’re holding onto really hold the value you believe it does? 

Truth is the gateway to allow all you desire to come through you and be your experience.

The money, business, love, health…

What are your desires worth to you?

If you know more is possible for you…

Get yourself in front of a Truth Teller, stand in the fire and allow what’s really true to be unveiled.

Truth is the gateway to what you seek.  Truth will set you free.

You can handle it. 

You’ve just got to decide what is most valuable to you.

P.S. This not only is an invitation to hear truth but, to SPEAK your truth as well.

5.14.2019

Willing to love?

We can only love and be loved as much as we are willing to have our hearts broken open.

What are you willing to do in order to experience what you say you want?

#unfuckyourmind
#setyourheartfree
#quantumleaps

5.12.2019

Your fear of heartbreak is…

…keeping the love you desire at bay.

If your heart had been broken, it’s been broken open. Keep it open. Don’t close it off in fear of more pain.

The opening has been created for more love to come in.

Don’t look at the one who broke it open as the villain. They were the exact one you called into your life to create the crack and set your whole heart free.

From that open space you get to experience more of who you are and call in a match to that new resonance.

A match to your open, free, love filled heart.

#unfuckyourmind
#setyourheartfree

1.21.2019

Learning to let go in relationships


Many years ago, I was with my energy healer and she said to me “I believe we have many soulmates in our lifetime”.

I remember that one statement blasting my mind open – ‘I could have more than 1 soulmate in my life??’

In that instant, I let go of the belief I fucked up my engagement, lost my only chance, and released the fear story of never finding my “one”.

I suddenly had a world of possibilities in front of me. 

I had been freed of limitations I didn’t even know were limiting me – spiritually, energetically, emotionally.

This goes for all kinds of relationships…

Every time I let myself move beyond a relationship that is not serving me, my energy is freed up to become a vibrational match to where my trajectory is headed.

I know not everyone is headed or even interested in the life I enjoy exploring and experiencing. What I know – more and more vibrational matches become a part of my experiences as I let go of what isn’t a match.

Life begins to feel like one big playground experience.

Sure, there are the growth spurts. You learn how to ride the ride and flow with the growth.

The growth is all you have asked for making its way in and life asking you to step into it.

Life simply requires you to become who you say you want to be.

Take a look at your relationships…
– Are you showing up as a match to who you say you are?

– Are you settling for less than what you deserve?

– Are you forcing anything in order to not be alone?

– Are you dimming your light to not outshine or trigger them?

– Are you holding back so you don’t move beyond the other?

I know you’re afraid –
– to take a leap and not know what is on the other side or if it will work out.
– to want to stand up and be fully you but, afraid you’ll be kicked out of the tribe.

FEAR IS A LIAR.

Beyond the fear, it is all even better than you could possibly imagine.

It’s even possible inside your current relationship. Because…

All your relationships are what they are because it is what you’re allowing them to be.

It’s time to get real with yourself.

Because what is happening in your relationships, is happening in other areas of your life on some level.

Settling, forcing, dimming your shine… not good for relationships, career, money… Do you see how it is mirroring back to you?

Don’t forget to look at the relationship with yourself.

You deserve more and better.

It is ready, waiting and available to you.

What hidden limitations are holding you back?

Kelly Ann

P.S. Rebel Rebirth is open for registration. Five week group submersion, clearing, releasing, upleveling, and stepping into the authentic expression of you and the life you were born for.

No more settling… In any area of your life.

You came here to do it all different. It begins with you.

 

1.12.2019

How resentment holds you back and down


Resentment is the righteous cousin of the victim. 
 
Resentment is a belief that someone has wronged you and you need to be right about it. 
 
Holding onto resentment is like holding a hot stone and blaming another for your pain. 
 
Sure, shitty stuff happens but, holding onto resentment toward another gives your power to them. 
 
No one else is responsible for your feelings. 
 
What you can and have the power to do is take a look at what the circumstances are reflecting back to you about your beliefs. 
 

Resentment is a mere signal from your Soul that YOU are allowing something to happen that is not aligned with what is real, right, and true for you. 

 
Is somebody treating you poorly, taking advantage of you, disrespecting you….? 
 
Well, you’re allowing it. 
 
The person is not in your life any longer and their name and how they’ve done you wrong still rolling from your lips? 
 
Victim. Giving away your power. Allowing your energy to leak. 
 
The feelings that trigger resentment are signals from Soul to spark a shift, speak up, make the necessary changes to come back to your truth. 
 
It is not for you to hold onto. 
 

You teach people how to treat you and attract people into your life to mirror back your beliefs. 

 
These circumstances and people that trigger you are a gift to help you see a belief you can’t see for yourself. A belief that doesn’t serve you. 
 
You’re being signaled. A change is necessary. 
 
Holding onto resentment only burns you and it gets hotter until you do something about it.
 
Are you ready to let go of resentment? 
 
– Thank the person (silently) for showing you what you couldn’t see for yourself. 
– Forgive them and yourself. 
– Make the changes in your beliefs the resentment triggered. 
 
Then watch ALL areas of your life shift. 
 
Because core beliefs affect EVERYTHING. The resentment was simply a signal you’re out of alignment.  
 
oxox,
 
Are you ready to break the patterns you have in money, relationship and health?
 
Do you want to pluck out the root of the core beliefs manifesting and attracting the shitty circumstances?
 
Many of your core beliefs have been passed down from other. Or you’ve been pained and created a belief to protect you from being hurt again.
 
Your subconscious holds these beliefs tightly.  You are blind to them because they’ve become automatic operating mechanisms. It is how you’ve learned to move about life. 
 
But, BUT! if you’re feeling resentful, frustrated, angry…. And not taking action to shift and change…?
 
You are getting in your own way. 
 
Are you ready to get out of the way? 
 
My super power is reading energy and identifying core beliefs that keep you from aligning, doing and feeling what you deeply know is possible and available to you. 
 
I will guide you out of your own way. I’ll identify and clear the beliefs and energy stopping you up. 
 
From that space – old blocks and beliefs cleared and what you ’ve been working so hard toward but haven’t quite gotten there comes into alignment.
 
The business, money, health, relationship… It all starts within. 
 
I have 2 spaces for private one on one work. A good match for this work is one who knows more and better is available, knows it begins within, and is ready to do the things necessary to get out of the way and allow the life that wants to make its way through to you. 
 
How do you know? It’s in your dreams and desires.
 
You’re not given a dream or desire that isn’t possible. 
 
Now that you know, what will you choose? 
12.25.2018

Do you have a cap on PLEASURE?


A cap on pleasure in life experiences, relationships, having a successful business, your body, sharing your art, being the fullest expression of who you are…
 
Your pleasure cap, glass ceiling, stop pattern might not be noticeable.

The pleasure cap is a subconscious pattern that when things feel really good, you’re in flow, feeling happy and then boom – something happens and you’re in a heavier, lower vibe state of being, stressed out and distracted.

Some kind of life event, drama or chaos shows up. A diversion from where you were headed now taking all your attention.
 

It seems really real. But, if you knew what a powerful creator you are, you’d be creating more of what you DO WANT.

 
For years I didn’t recognize this subconscious pattern I held within. When things would be going really well, some kind of bomb would drop in and bring me back down – off my ‘high horse’.
 
It all appeared really important life stuff that needed my attention. A relationship needed resolution, money challenges would pop up, my back would go out…
 
The events didn’t really need my attention.
 
What needed my attention was this inner cycle of subconscious self-sabotage that would appear when I got too close to pleasure and happiness.
 
From an early age I learned a behavior to not be TOO HAPPY because something bad would happen when I was happy and having fun.
 
That learned behavior of stopping my own pleasure and happiness carried through much of my life as a way of self preservation – to not get hurt, feel pain, lose what was good.
 
I didn’t even know it was a pattern until I became so frustrated at what was happening in my life. 


-The cycle of losing weight to only gain more back.
– Relationships / dating going really well, then not.
– Financial abundance and flow then a full on stop and empty bank account.
 
Deeply I knew more and better was available but, I couldn’t seem to get past the glass ceiling. The stop point just became a way of being that I learned a behavior to work around.
 
I thought this was just how life was. It is NOT.
 
I was subconsciously running this stop pattern and sabotaging my own pleasure and happiness from subliminal fear of what could happen. A learned response to protect me from pain of too much pleasure.
 
Once identified and cleared, the pattern no longer held me back. I could manifest, attract, and allow more of what I wanted into my life – and it remained in my life.
 
 
Take a look for yourself at when life seems to take a down hill turn for you. What was happening for you prior? Where were you headed?
 
This happens in –
: Relationships – things going so great then, a fight will break out. Or, being single, you decide to get out and start dating again and you get sick.
 
: Health routine – on a good stride then, you fall off the wagon.
 
: Money – making good bank then, some high priced necessary expense comes up.
 

Getting to the core of the pattern / pleasure cap is key to getting up and over the hill and keep going. To allow yourself full out happiness and pleasure.

 
It is not that you aren’t doing the right things to get you headed in the direction you say you want to be… it might be that you have a cap on pleasure.
 
So, if you’re doing all the things but, can’t seem to be and experience what you know is possible, you likely have a pleasure cap pattern within.
 
Your system is ready for a defrag – clear out what no longer serves you. In fact, a pleasure cap, likely the very thing in your way of what you say you want.
 
Nothing outside you can resolve this. It starts within.
 
You, your life, is very much worth your time and attention. Because if the desire is within you, it is possible.
 
 
Are you ready to explore and clear YOUR pleasure cap?
 
Once a pattern is identified, the clearing affects ALL areas of your life.
 
I worked with a client looking for LOVE. I identified core belief she held about who she was. She would attract dates but, never ideal matches.
 
When I read her energy and cleared the vibration she was giving out and operating from, she attracted more dates that matched who she was looking for.
 
She is now married.
 
She also hit 6 figures in her biz that year and became an International speaker.
 
You are meant for pleasure and to experience the dreams in your heart. Are you ready to clear what is in your way?
 
Once the cap, pattern, vibration is cleared, the ‘work’ gets to be about CREATION.
 
I currently have space for 3 private clients. You are one of them if you know more is possible and available and you’re ready and willing to do what it takes to move through the invisible limitations and co-create more of what your heart and Soul desires.
 
Whether it be love, money, health, business… once the core limitation is cleared, so much opens and becomes available. Like taking a boulder out of the way of a flowing stream. Flow!
 
Message me here. I’ll send you the details and ensure we’re a good fit for this transformative energy work.
12.6.2018

The reward of transcending physical pain and healing on all levels


Got lower back pain? Hip pain? Sciatica? Reproductive and sexual organ challenges? 

There is and has been deep, cellular, energetic wound healing and program release occurring. 

Have you been trying to heal and resolve the issues from physical approaches but, things still not resolving? 

Your body is a manifestation of your subconscious mind.

The healing and resolution has to go beyond the physical – to the energetic and consciousness. 

In sessions with clients, some of what is being resolved are 

:: old traumas, too painful to resolve at the time of occurrence,

:: incongruent beliefs taken on as theirs passed down to be transmuted in the now,

:: primal fears on survival…

What is happening within manifests beyond your physical aches as – 

:: financial instability,

:: abrupt life changes,

:: lack of purpose, clarity, creativity, direction,

:: emotional instability,

:: feeling stuck or trapped in circumstances…

If your physical challenges aren’t resolving, the opportunity for you is to go deeper into your consciousness and energetic vibration. 

These shifts can happen rather quickly and some take time to resolve and be comfortable in the new expansion of yourself. 

When the emotional and energetics are cleared, transmuted, resolved, clients –

:: tap into their flow,

:: purpose, drive, creativity, ambition increases,

:: money starts to flow in,

:: they feel inner peace within themselves and all of life,

:: their aligned relationships, community, tribe come in…

A holistic approach (body, mind, spirit) is the only way I’ve had lasting change and results – personally and professionally. 

You are way more than your physical being. Your body is guiding you deeper within yourself and Soul. 

Who you are not is being shed

Just like a butterfly going through metamorphosis sheds and becomes something different, so do you. 

The difference is humans have free will and can grasp on and try to control the change. Until your body says “enough, it’s time”. 

Only addressing the body keeps the subconscious patterns in place manifesting the cycles keeping you frustrated. 

You are frustrated because your Soul is calling forth. Signaling you. Guiding you. Are you listening? 

To hear Soul it is a deep listening. Beyond the subconscious limitations, barriers and beliefs. 

It’s a tuning in. 

Self awareness. 

Soul Alignment.

Emotional mastery. 

Energy management. 

They don’t teach this is school. But, I do. 

// Are you through with managing the discord?

// Are you willing to surrender what is seeking to come through you? 

// Can you let it be easy? 

For those that are a “Hell YES!” I have a few exclusive spaces for private one on one work. Message me at hello at kellyanncory dot com with what resonates for you and what you’re ready for. We’ll see if we are a match for the transformation you seek. 

Once all the gunk is cleared away, it becomes about conscious creation.  And that is a heck of a lot of FUN!!

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