A little backround on my neighbor – he is in his 80’s and been a widow about 5+ years. He is the sweetest, most gentle, kind man! His daughter lives 2 houses from me. I keep an eye on him, she watches my cat, I take care of odds and ends for both of them. Our neighborhood is cool like that.My neighbor gentleman is a huge fan of bingo – doesn’t miss a session! His daughter shared stories of all the ladies trying to “woo” him with kindness and baked goods (he is quite a catch!). About a year ago a lady friend moved in with him. She’s a bit younger than him, but love knows no age.
So, last night I’m in my front yard and notice my neighbor pull in. I observe their slow, precise movement toward the front door. She led them to the front door, opened the screen and he reached top open the lock. While lingering behind there was a pause – he held the door for her wanting her to enter first. Her glance and bright smile said more than words could ever say. I saw the love in her eyes. I saw she felt taken care of, honored, cherished.
True Love. Respect. Appreciation. Honor.
What really matters?
Money comes and goes. We all get old and our looks change. What will matter to you when you’re 80? Can this person be your friend through it all? Will you feel taken care of – in all ways? Is this someone you feel you can be happy spending quiet times on the couch with – having nothing to say, but just being in their presence?
Talking to my friend (who has been married 42 years now) said what has really helped her live a happy life is her husband is her best friend.
So, think about that as you’re on your search for love and partnership – is this person someone you’d consider your best friend. Think of your best friend… what qualities in them keep you besties? Seek that out in a partner. Some of the best relationships I know of began as friends…
I wish you to find precisely what your heart desires and settle for nothing less!