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Life will meet you where you are

I hosted a private gathering this past weekend. The invitation was to go deeper within the self, connect with the heart – radical self-love.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

Because the world you perceive and experience around you is a materialization of what is within you.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

The conditioning, the programming, the mechanisms of survival, the behaviors to avoid pain, the limitations you picked up from those before and around you…⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

These materialize in your life as challenges with money, relationships, health, business, ability to create… ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

Challenges to grow and expand from – not to stop you or make life miserable.

⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣It’s all your perception and you have the capacity to shift. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

And when you shift what is within you, your WORLD shifts too.

⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I get it – it can be so f*ucking uncomfortable at times to see these parts of ourselves.

But, even when we are not looking, they are there. Others see and feel them too.

Your life reflects as such.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

So, trying to fix the thing outside of you – the person, the marketing plan, the money, the world, your body – is keeping you on a hamster wheel.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

Freedom and empowerment come from cultivating WITHIN and setting yourself free to be, live, feel, express, create.

⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣It’s not so much about getting rid of what is in the way.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

Those things will naturally rise up and transmute as you step into your CHOICES.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

Truly choosing what you want for yourself and how you want to feel.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

From there you’ll be presented with the inner mechanisms that have been in your way.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

Keep choosing forward.
Choose love.
Choose yourself. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

Life will meet you there.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣


Are you really happy?

⁣⁣If your ⁣

career, ⁣
bank account,
⁣relationship status,
⁣body shape,
⁣social media account numbers,
⁣monthly sales, and
⁣where you live ⁣are…

…measures of your happiness, you are hooked into the matrix and mind programs. ⁣⁣⁣

If one or all of these things go away (because they can) how do you treat and think about yourself? ⁣⁣

Are you already hard on yourself because you’re “not there yet”? ⁣⁣

Or are you hating on yourself because of where you are now?

⁣⁣If so, start with working on your happiness instead. ⁣⁣

What you might find is you’re chasing after things you really don’t want anyway. ⁣⁣

You might find you have hidden talents and dreams you couldn’t see because someone else told you what was important. ⁣⁣⁣

It’s your life, babe. It’s not going to look like anyone else’s. ⁣⁣Do the things that make you feel happy. ⁣⁣

When you do make moves to do something different, the matrix and mind programs will kick in and cause fear and mindfuckery to keep you where you are. ⁣⁣

You are way more powerful.

⁣⁣⁣Keep tuning in and connecting with your heart (which is getting massive upgrades right now). ⁣

The power is in your frequency. ⁣⁣

Your heart frequency is a powerful force of magnetizing, manifesting, and materializing. ⁣⁣

Will you let down the walls, let go of the old pain, and allow what is meant for you to come through?  ⁣


Is your body zapping and vibrating? ⁣

💥💥 Zzzzzzt! 💥💥

 💥 Is that what you’re system has felt like?

💥 Do you feel restless but, not much energy to move?⁣

💥 Has your anxiety increased? ⁣

💥 Does it feel like you might float or explode outside your body? ⁣

What’s happening are upgrades and integration. ⁣

You have an energy body and just like your computer or phone received upgrades to operate more efficiently, your energy body does too. ⁣

What’s happening specifically right now is your inner communication system is being cleared out and upgraded. ⁣

The system below your nervous system. ⁣

The communication system beyond your six senses. ⁣

This upgrade actually began a few weeks back. ⁣

You might have seen it in your outer world as relationships were changing and emotional triggers coming to the surface. ⁣

You were needing to make solids decisions about what you were willing and no longer willing to participate in. ⁣

Where your boundaries were weak, they were reflected back to you. ⁣

Any unresolved emotions, trauma, or pain is density in your whole system / being. ⁣

The experiences, triggers, emotions are rising up to be healed and cleared in order for the upgraded energies to integrate in. ⁣

That’s what the zzzzzzt is. 💥⁣

✨ You’re calibrating an upgraded system for yourself. ⁣

✨ It doesn’t have to take a long time. It does not have to be painful. ⁣

✨ It does require you to choose then allow the process. ⁣

✨ Your mind will fight it. #unfuckyourmind

✨ It may not be convenient for your plans. ⁣

✨ Listen to your body and give it what it needs. ⁣

🦋  You called the upgrade forth because you asked for more and better for your life. ⁣

💥  This requires you to be a match for it to materialize. ⁣

💥  It requires you to dispel the old system, beliefs, pain, programs and allow the new to integrate in. ⁣

💥 It requires you to let go of limits you’ve been conditioned to and open yourself up to allow the more you have called in. ⁣

Don’t be distracted by what is happening.

Focus on where you’re headed and on what you’re creating. ⁣

This is how you Make Big Magic. 🔮


Has all this chaos stirred up emotions and energy within you?

Everything you are experiencing is happening for you. 

Chaos is an invitation for you to create from.

For you to –
– create the change you’ve been putting off,
– create the new pathway that has been whispering to you,
– create the expression of your message, art, healing, essence, soul. 

It’s why you will see many make HUGE changes in their life after a big life event.  Like a health scare, a divorce, a job loss… 

They realize their time in this life is limited and they’ve put off what they know to do for too long.

Is that you? 

Are you ready to finally implement the choices you’ve been holding off?


Are you willing to choose?

Are you a free-thinker? 

Are you willing to stand in your own truth – even when everyone around you believes differently?

Do you have your own back? No matter what?

“Would you jump off a bridge if someone told you to?”⁣

⁣As a child, that was a lesson and guidance I was taught in the power of choice.

:: To choose for myself.
:: To NOT go along with the crowd.
:: To pave my own way.
:: To trust myself.
:: To do me, my way. ⁣

To some, who doesn’t think for themselves, this is disruptive. ⁣

If someone wants to jump off a bridge, that’s their choice. ⁣

If I want to jump off a bridge, that’s MY choice. ⁣

If I DON’T want to jump off a bridge, that’s my choice. ⁣

In either choice, it’s mine to make. ⁣

Your choice is yours to make. ⁣

No one has to agree for your voice and choice to matter to YOU.

There is a lot of wild stuff happening in the world right now.

Your greatest power is your connection with yourself and the choices you make FOR YOU. ⁣

Do no harm. ⁣

Especially to yourself. ⁣

When you choose against what is real and right for you, you’re giving away your rights and power. ⁣

It will catch up with your body, mind, energy, and soul. ⁣ 

If your choices make another uncomfortable, that’s for them. That is their system indicating they might not be fully aligned with their personal choices. ⁣

Lead the way by walking your talk. It is incredibly easy to blend in with the herd. ⁣

Not you. ⁣

You’re here to birth a new reality, a new paradigm. You’re here to disrupt the broken system and lead a new way. ⁣

It begins with your choices. ⁣

Are you choosing for you?

Or are you choosing what is comfortable?


Does it feel like there is something in your way?

And, you don’t know what it is?

Inside this video, I share how this is happening for you and three ways to move through it.

For those who want to know…

Here are the three ways… 

1. Believing something is in the way.

2. Not really choosing what you say you want.

3. Your mindset keeps going on the path of what could go wrong, how you can fail, how it won’t work out. 


I had a client who was getting the runaround about her migraines. Doctor visits, checking hormones, checking food allergies… No answers.

Two plus decades of migraines and no change.

Migraines kept her from creating the life she wanted.

:: She was sick 3 days a week which made her unavailable to her family.

:: She wanted to build her own business but, never had enough energy.

:: She wanted more abundance but, her system could not handle any more.

She was sick, tired, and walking through life like a mummy.

She came to me because she was ready to move through what was in her way of creating the life she knew was possible.

Within 5 weeks (compared to 20+ years!) her migraines stopped AND she met the financial goal she set for herself in her business.

Are you ready to Make Big Magic in YOUR life too?


Are you ready to do the inner work that creates the outer changes you’ve been seeking?

You see, healing and creation can happen at the same time.  It does not have to take a long time.  

It is easier than your limitations will tell you, funner than you might imagine healing work is, and the simplest ways to create results that last.

Results come from your choice, you showing up for you.  I’ll be your intuitive, psychic guide through my 12 week Make Big Magic Mentorship

You’ll understand how to work with your energy, your mindset, and have processes and tools that work FOR YOU to be the conscious, sovereign creator of your life.  

Do you want help identifying the underlying causes of what is manifesting in your body and life?  

Currently there are 2 spaces available for the right fit.  Due to the intimate support and custom guidance, I limit the number of one to one clients I take on. 

Do you want to apply? 

Here is the link  https://kellyanncory.com/mentorshipapplication/ 

Inside that link there is also a video explaining more of what the Make Big Magic journey is.

Even if you’re not ready for one to one work, the video is intended to shed light on this human journey of evolution, ascension, integration, and dark night of the soul.  


Is your body speaking to you through aches, pains, illness….?

Here is the replay link: 


Is your body speaking to you?

Do you have neck pain? Backache? Migraines? Digestive issues?

Those are manifestations of something under the surface.

Your body keeps the score (check out the book).

Your body is a manifestation of your subconscious mind (Joe Dispenza).

When you understand what is happening in your body and mind, your body, mind, spirit – LIFE – comes into homeostasis. 


When clients come to me to #unfuckyourmind and integrate their power, I can’t help to NOT see what is going on under the surface – in their physical body and energy body (mind/body/spirit).

You see, your life is a reflection of what is happening within you. 

When you –
– do the inner work,
– understand what your body is communicating to you,
– heal the malfunction at the core,
your outer world reflects as such.

Client Success Story

A recent client came to me nearly driving herself crazy with the negative self-talk, worry, fear, overanalyzing, afraid to not speak up – not in her power.  

It was taking a lot of her energy to manage her mind (excess energy built up and habit). 

It was disrupting ALL areas of her life and affecting her body. 

  • Her body was manifesting excess weight, digestion issues, skin eruptions… 
  • Her anxiety was between 8-10 daily.
  • Her partner was not meeting her where she desired inside their relationship.
  • Her discomfort had her isolating herself from others. 

Through my process, I help create healing and lasting change that guides clients into their creative power and sovereignty by identifying the core of the disruption and clearing the energetic frequencies, patterns, and programming. 

The energetic discord and malfunction come from conditioning, trauma, unresolved pain and emotions, guilt, shame, repetitive thoughts…and such.

The energetic discord is like having a kink in a garden hose – with it there, life and your body doesn’t flow and operate as intended.  

When there is a kink, your health, relationships, money, business… all kinked up. You are not meant to manage pain and emotional discord.  Those are signals attempting to get your attention about something under the surface for you.

Back to this client – what rose to the surface for her was something she had never dealt with before.  An event buried very deep, something she never shared with anyone until she met me. 

I guided her through my energy healing and emotional alchemy processes and EVERYTHING has changed for her.  And, we were only halfway through her mentorship.

  • Her physical symptoms are healing, 
  • she feels lighter, 
  • she is speaking up, 
  • people are noticing a shift in how she looks, 
  • her partner has done a 180 (she feels treasured, loved, respected – without changing him), 
  • her anxiety is at 1 or 2,
  • she is at peace in her mind and self ALL DAY, 
  • she feels more confident, empowered, loving herself and her body, 
  • all of her relationships have improved…

She is now consciously aware of any discord or resistance in her thoughts and body and knows what to do to release the energy and mindfuckery.  

That is empowerment.  That is freedom. That is sovereignty.  


When life feels like it’s falling apart, let go.⁣

It’s falling apart FOR YOU.⁣

You’ve put a request to the universe, you journaled, made a vision board, set intentions, and celebrated moon ceremonies.⁣

You are not in charge of the how things come together. ⁣

And… ⁣⁣

When you’re – ⁣
:: trying to hold everything together,⁣
:: trying to control outcomes,⁣
:: trying to figure out the what and how it happens,⁣
:: restricting yourself with rules and staying inside the lines,⁣

– you are making it waaayyy harder on yourself than it has to be.⁣

All that control and contraction is really about –
– you trying to prevent old pain from being triggered
– you’re trying to prevent yourself from making a “mistake”⁣
⁣- you’re playing by 3D restrictions while attempting to birth a new reality with cosmic codes

Do you see the big gap there? The conflict? – trying to drill a nail using a hammer.⁣ 

You’re working against yourself. You’re choking out possibilities.⁣

When life is falling apart, when chaos is erupting, let go.⁣

The discomfort of the chaos is your human constrictions of conditioning and programs being triggered for release.⁣

There are ways to let go and move through with ease.

Is your attention and focus on the way through or are you focused on the mess?⁣

Know you get to work WITH the mess. The mess doesn’t have to work you.⁣

And if the mess has been working you, if you want help getting out of the patterns and cycles, and you are ready to powerfully step into your courage and CREATE beyond the pain, drama, and trauma, send me a message.⁣

There are currently two spaces available for the Make Big Magic Mentorship.⁣

We’ll be together, meeting privately with direct access for 12 weeks.⁣

I’ll share with you everything I know about #unfuckyourmind, energy alchemy, chaos creation…⁣

While things may still get messy along your journey, you’ll know how to work with the energy and your mindset to make the courageous choices and no longer be at the mercy of your pain, past, programming.⁣

You are the Alchemist.⁣
You are the Medicine.⁣
You are the Magician.⁣

Are you ready to Make Big Magic?

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