You didn’t come here to take on others stuff and do their work. Your extrasensory perceptions are yours to do with what you please.
Take yourself off the hook. Set yourself free.
Let your Wild Genius and Natural Gifts be used for yourself and by those who want and deserve your time, energy, love, attention.
Everyone is on their own journey. And while you can see what is possible and available for another, it doesn’t mean they are willing to do what it takes to align with it.
You can’t do it for them either.
I tried. And for a lot of that time, it was me who suffered. I wanted inner peace more for the others than they wanted it for themselves.
They said they wanted it. And, because I’m a ‘say what you mean’ woman, I believed them.
When I realized I was taking on what wasn’t mine, that I wanted for them more than they wanted for themselves, that I was carrying the load in the relationship, I let go.
Sometimes it meant letting go of the relationship, other times it meant being okay with witnessing another choose limitation (lack, fear, suffering…).
Those who don’t want to do their own work will gravitate toward someone who will do it for them.
Others who don’t want to do their work will see you as kryptonite and push you away.
Whatever is happening is FOR YOU.
If you are feeling challenged in your relationships…
Take an honest look… Are you holding yourself back, keeping yourself small, suffering in life (money, love, health, biz) because you’re diverting your attention, giving your genius and gifts to another?
Whatever is operating for you under the surface, clean and clear it up.
It is usually a fear of no longer being the “good girl / boy”, abandonment, guilt betrayal…
You have no responsibility for another’s journey… Only your own.
And when you pull your power back, you naturally light up for those who want to be in relationship with you, work with you, and meet you where you are.
You set the vibe.