Feeling stuck is like walking through knee deep mud, being in a void space, a blank mind, a too busy mind, lack of direction, confusion – unclear about a lot!
Feeling stuck is actually a great place to be.
Feeling stuck is a symptom of growth, expansion and going beyond where we’ve been before. We are releasing old patterns and programs that have been with us most of our lives. Those patterns and programs had become our comfort zone.
We are being guided to go beyond.
Stepping through requires emotional and energetic alignment.
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We grow up being taught how to be stuck. We unconsciously pick up fears and limitations and make them our own, a part of our life, and way of being. We are taught through witnessing and observing others.
Then we create unconscious ways to keep ourselves within those limitations.
Because to be different, to go outside those unconsciously imposed limitations would separate us from the pack. And separation feels lonely and scary as f*ck.
So, we do what we need to in order to remain a part of.
We unconsciously sabotage our own happiness and prevent ourselves from growing beyond, being happy, and manifesting our desires.
Until we find ourselves in too much pain to remain where we are.
And we are ready to go beyond.
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‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’
‘Actually, who are you not to be?’
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Our minds create clever justification for the ways we self sabotage and keep ourselves within limitations.
We say: “It is because of this, that, the other thing, him, her, money, job…”
The stories we tell align us with the experiences we manifest.
To shift our experience, we have to go beyond to make a change within our unconscious patterns, our energy vibration, the cellular imprints, and neuro pathways.
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Ready to go beyond.
If things are not where you want them to be with love, money, career, etc, ask yourself “What do I really believe about (this thing -love, money, career)”.
If nothing comes, a sly way to get through to the deeper, unconscious beliefs is to ask “If I knew (this thing) was totally possible, what would that look like?”
From this question you’ll discover any inner blocks or beliefs that don’t align with your desire – the reasons why it is not possible.
Rather than dissect what you hear, release it – write it out and leave it on the paper, hand it over to your higher self, the Universe, God.
Truly let it go from every part of your being.
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Then tell the story of what living that desire would be like. Feel what it feels like to tell that new story.
As you tell the new story, the feelings and sensations within your body are the indicators of your energetic alignment.
If it feels good, you are aligned. If it does not feel good, you are not aligned with the truth of who you are and what is possible for you.
Keep going beyond. Write it out, hand it over, tell a new story. Break down the new story until it feels real for. Sometimes it is just the one next best step.
Going too far the other direction is also a limitation. We are silly beings.
The only limitation is ourselves.
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We’re already telling ourselves unconscious stories…. lets make them great ones!
It is safe to shine, be happy, have the life you desire… It is not about anyone else. Don’t allow it be.
“And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” Marianne Williamson