We are solution oriented! It is natural for us to want to resolve problems. So maybe you’re:
- not meeting the right men/women
- not getting the responses to your online profile
- going on dates and never having a good connection
- frustrated because you aren’t meeting anyone or
- insert unfulfilled desire here (better career, more money, fulfilling friendships, healthier body, etc)
Whatever problem you’re facing it cannot be resolved by continuing to look at the problem itself. Search for solutions. See the experience from a different view. Ask: How can I see this differently?
We also have this deep desire to be right. So we talk to other people about how wrong the situation is, how badly its not working, how terrible it feels, how the other person was wrong…
When we focus on the problem, it grows. When we continue to talk about it, the energy builds. Then we get stuck in the problem by keeping our focus there.
When you recognize there is something you want to change, start there-
Recognize it.
Decide what you desire to experience.
Play around with what possible solutions might be.
Then let it go.
Also, when we’re attached to a particular outcome it keeps us locked into just one solution. When you get clear on what you desire to experience and possible resolutions state them and add “this or something better”. Then let it go knowing your consciousness and the Universe will work closely together to bring a solution, a person, a teacher, a different view, a new opportunity – whatever it is – it will come to you.