Fuck the spiritual bypassers. Fuck the law of attraction gas lighters. If you’ve had life events that have jacked your nervous system and created a mechanism to survive, you’re like a feral cat.
When the things you want come close to you but, triggers feelings of unsafety and vulnerability, you’re going to arch your back and your claws will come out to defend yourself.
Automatically. Subconsciously.
That’s how survival mechanisms work. Even for the things you want to have and experience in your life.
You’re in high alert for what could go wrong that you don’t allow in what you want.
This is why LOA, affirmations, and vision boards don’t work for you. Right now.
No go around’s are going to get you the results. Especially if it requires you to let down walls of protection and increases exposure of your heart and hurt pieces.
You’re not doing any of it wrong. You’re not broken. It’s not about worthiness.
It’s just that right now feeling safe feels better than looking at these outdated mechanisms and releasing the “protection”.
When you’re ready, I’d be honored to guide you through and beyond.
In the meantime, love yo’self.